Sunday, September 28, 2014

Fast Food



            From what I can remember, as a child fast food was always a special treat that my parents would get on occasion. I was probably more excited for the toys that came in a happy meal than the actual food itself.  McDonald’s was always the place I wanted to go.  I remember feeling like I was receiving a present whenever I opened the small, red happy meal McDonald’s box containing my chicken nuggets, fries, and toy.  If I didn’t go to McDonald’s then my parents would take me to Taco Bell.  When I was younger I couldn’t get enough of their tacos.  I always had to use their mild sauce.  I just couldn’t handle the hot or fire sauce they offered.  Getting these kid’s meals also meant I got to get a soda.  Soda always tasted so refreshing coming from McDonald’s or Taco Bell.  I would always struggle between having to choose either Coke or Sprite.  Being able to go to one of these fast food places always made me happy because my parent’s made me feel like I had done a good deed to deserve this treat.

            Now I can say I have a different perspective on fast food.  Yes, I still won’t mind getting some chicken nuggets from McDonald’s or Doritos locos tacos from Taco Bell.  The difference is I don’t see it as a treat anymore.  It’s more of a last minute decision to get food because I don’t feel like making anything for myself.  I will say that I get fast food more often than when I was younger but not by much.  Having the ability to drive is probably the reason that I get more fast food now.  If I couldn’t drive I would have to rely on somebody taking me which wouldn’t happen so I would just make something at home.  The decision between Sprite and Coke is one that I still struggle with.  Something about getting a soda from McDonald’s seems to make the drink taste better to me than when I have the same type of soda at my house.  Even though I said I get fast food more often than when I was younger, I wouldn’t say I rely on it.  Mostly because I know how unhealthy fast food is.  Even a salad from a fast food place is unhealthy.  It’s just hard to pass up getting fast food because it’s affordable and you don’t have to wait for the food, if you want to call what they sell food.

            My views on fast food have changed as I have gotten older.  However, I still like how I thought of fast food as a treat.  They created happy memories in my childhood which is something I wouldn’t want to change.  I just have a better understanding of how fast food can affect your lifestyle depending on how often you get it.

Sunday, September 21, 2014

Essay #1


Cooperstown, a place where some of the greatest players of baseball have been and I had the chance to play there when I was twelve years old. The entire experience on and off the field is something I will cherish and never forget as it was possibly the greatest moment of my life. Imagine the place of your dreams where you would do whatever it took to be there. For me, I was there. Cooperstown, New York.

            Of course, nothing happens how you plan it. My story begins on the 101 freeway going to LAX. Our flight leaves at 9:30 AM on a bright and sunny summer day. Since my parents always expect the best but plan for the worst, we were awake and driving out of Camarillo by 6:15 AM. Normally you’d expect to see a clear path early in the morning on a Saturday morning. Most of the people are asleep with the day off from their job. It’s a good thing my parents planned for the worst. We hit traffic right out the gate once we got over the hill into Thousand Oaks. Bumper to bumper seems like an understatement. Turns out someone in a SUV got in a minor accident about 10 miles south of Westlake. Needless to say, what is normally an hour drive became a two and a half hour journey. I remember thinking of it as a way to practice patience since the plane ride was going to be a five hour flight. Finally, against all the odds, we made it to LAX.

            “We made it.” My dad said with a sense of relief in his voice.                                      The check-in went smoothly and we were on the plane literally minutes from taking off. It was nearly impossible for me to stay in my seat. I was so excited. Then it went from excitement to sadness. Our flight was delayed due to bad weather in Albany, New York. Two hours went by and it looked like our flight would be cancelled. I couldn’t believe that it could be bright and sunny in California, but cloudy and raining in New York. I was beginning to think that the baseball gods didn’t want me to play in Cooperstown. Minutes after I thought the worst, we were boarding our flight and speeding down the runway. The visibility became good enough for us to fly into Albany. I regret not sleeping on the flight like my sister. Five hours seemed to be five years. To my sister, five hours was five seconds. Her exact words I still remember for some odd reason were, “I blinked and we were here.” The rest of that day was smooth sailing. We got to a hotel in Cooperstown at 8:30 PM eastern time. I tried to sleep but I couldn’t. I knew what was in store for me the next day.

            Tomorrow finally came and I couldn’t have been happier.  Part of this baseball tournament has the players sleep in dorms on a college campus five minutes away from the baseball fields.  My teammate Tyler and I were going to be roommates for the next week.  There were points where hanging out at the college away from our parents was more fun than the actual games we were there to play in.  Our first night was probably the funniest out of all of them.  We both slept on the floor of our dorm because we were too small to climb onto the actual beds.  I wasn’t even 5’0” at the time.  To make things worse we left our window open and three or four moths flew into our room to escape the rain and hail.  We both cowered under our blankets for the rest of the night.

            “If these moths kill me, tell my mom I love her”, Tyler said from underneath his blanket.

            We survived the night drenched in sweat.  Who knew that it could be so hot and humid while it’s hailing at the same time?  It was almost 85 degrees with hail.  My team was scheduled to be the first game to kick off the tournament.  We were supposed to start at 8:30 AM but delay seemed to be a reoccurring topic on this trip.  Since the ball fields were at a higher elevation than the dorms, fog was an issue.  I was barely able to see my hand extended out in front of me.  It was 9:30 and the umpires started the game.  We ended up winning 9-4.  It was such a great feeling. For that slight moment, it seemed like we were all professional baseball players who just won the World Series. In that week we played two games. I can’t remember how every game turned out except we finished with a record of 8-3. Other than the first game, our sixth game was just as memorable. Not for a good reason however. It was a night game. The lights were shining down as if we were the stars. With my team hitting, I was on first base in the middle of the game. The pitcher picks off and bam. The ball hits me in the eye. I remember just rolling in the dirt holding my left eye. I was more shocked that I was hit rather than being in pain. My eye was slightly swollen but I was still able to play. I came up to bat in the last inning and got a double. The next batter scored me and we won the game. My coach gave me the game ball because he thought of me as a fighter that day.

             We didn’t win the tournament but we did finish in seventh out of one hundred and sixteen teams from all over the country. Out of the top ten teams, eight were from California so I felt we represented our home state pretty well. Even though we didn’t get a trophy or medal, I thought that my team was champions after that tournament. My coach’s speech after our last game is something I will never forget.

            “The way you played in this tournament was incredible. You guys represented California with class and respect. We might have finished short of first place, but you are all winners. We got to be a part of something a handful of people can say they did. You guys played on a field that hall of famers began their career on. You’re all like my sons and I couldn’t be more proud. I speak for myself and all of your parents and siblings.”

            I got to live my dream for an entire week. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience. I met players from Maine to Oregon. On top of that I got to live in a dorm with my team and play in the biggest youth baseball tournament. Do I wish I could go back? Yes and no. yes because it was the greatest time of my life. No, because it wouldn’t seem as special considering what we accomplished. Cooperstown gave me the highlight of my entire baseball career.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Marriage


Although today’s society is changing, I personally feel that marriage still holds strong in America.  Even though more marriages are ending in divorce, there are still partners who are in it for the long haul until they are taken away from each other.  Seeing those couples provides many of us with the hope and idea that we can be just as happy with one partner.  Another reason is that marriages have had more meaning over the years than before.  Women used to be seen as property which meant marriages were for men to have rights over the women. Marriage was also used as a way to expand family boundaries like land and other goods.  Today, people marry because they feel that the love they have for each other is worth a life-long commitment.

            Personally, I don’t care for the idea of a temporary marriage.  It sounds to me like a more creative word for scapegoat.  Marriage is a bond between two people for life.  So saying temporary marriage is like saying a life-long commitment that lasts a few years.  Another term in my opinion for temporary marriage is divorce.  They both hold the same features where two people that thought they were in love decide to not be married anymore.  I side with the author Natalie Rivera.  A temporary marriage is disrespectful to the meaning of marriage.  Plus it’s not fair to other partners that can’t get married.  Homosexual couples are still not allowed to be married in some parts of the United States.  I can’t even imagine what a temporary marriage looks like in their eyes.  They don’t have the option of marriage but others can say “ I want to try this marriage but if I don’t like it then I won’t be a part of it anymore.”

            Marriage is still a social fabric in today’s society.  People still view marriage as a huge step in any relationship because it makes them wonder about what the future will hold.  Marriage usually brings up some questions. For me I would wonder if I’m personally ready? Will children be in the picture? Would financial debts play a role in my decision? Most importantly though I would have to think of this question. Do I see myself with the same person 45-50 years from when I get married? Will there still be the same amount of joy and happiness then as there should be now?  Unfortunately this is why more marriages end up in divorce though. Couples lose the spark they had between them.  By losing this, they also lose their happiness, joy, and passion for one another.  Marriage is still strong though for the reason of that one couple.  The couple that stays together and gives every other person the hope they need to keep marriage alive.

Sunday, September 7, 2014

My Name



            My full name is Brandon Scott Aoki.  Obviously my name doesn’t mix too well with each other.  My first name was a struggle for my parents.  They couldn’t decide on whether or not they wanted me to have a Japanese name or not.  Eventually, they decided to save the Japanese name for the next child who ended up being a girl.  In the United States, Brandon is number 33 in the ranks of popular names. My name has different meanings.  In Old English the name Brandon is a combination of “brom” which means broom (weeds) and “dun” which means hill.  That means my name represents a dweller who lived on a hill full of weeds.  The Irish meaning of Brandon is someone filled with bravery.  Since I’m part Irish I choose to think of the Irish meaning instead.

            I guess at first I wasn’t going to have a middle name but my parents changed their mind in the end.  My middle name is named after my dad who has played an important role in my life.  My last name is Japanese.  Aoki is translated to “green tree”.  As you would think, it isn’t very popular in America but it is very common in central Japan.  Personally, my last name is my favorite out of my entire full name.  I can honestly say that I have never met anyone else with the same last name who wasn’t related to me.  It’s one feature that helps me be different from other people.  Even though it doesn’t happen quite as much as it used to, in school my teachers would have trouble pronouncing my name. Basically it’s Ay-oh-key.  Some teachers would butcher my name so bad that that’s how they remembered me. I was the kid whose name they couldn’t say which is something I find funny now. I used to be embarrassed when they screwed up on it because the kids would laugh and I thought that they were laughing at my name.  When I look back they were just laughing because my name gave the teacher trouble.

            If someone gave me the chance to change my name, I could easily reply with a simple “No”.  A name is what makes you who you are.  Your parents gave you that name for a reason.  Granted, if your name was Princess Butterfly or something weird like that, I could see why you might want to edit your name.  Other than that though, your name defines you.  It’s how your friends create nicknames for you.  It’s the name your mom uses when you did something wrong.  Whether your name is common or not, the way it is used to describe you is always unique.